First rule of family…you don’t mess with someone’s mom. Second rule…if someone does, you write a ranty post about it.

The past couple of months have been pretty crazy. My sister and her husband separated. One day they’re handling the separation as well as they can. The next day, it’s really messy and he takes all of the money out of their joint account, leaving her with nothing. It’s been pretty stressful to see my baby sister in this situation with her two kids, ages 5 and 3.

As the saying goes, when it rains, it pours.

My mom has been working in a career that she just can’t stand for the past 20 years or so. In the Spring she moved closer to my sister before all hell broke loose. My mom was trying to get out of the work she’s been doing but it’s difficult because that’s where she has the most job experience.

Not long after she started the job she hates, she decided she was done. That’s when she told me she’s going to school part-time to become a massage therapist. I was sooooo proud of my mama. It seems like all her life she would do things to make others happy but this was one of the first times she was doing something to make her happy.

She was a single mom when I was younger and she worked her ass off to make sure I had what I needed. Finally having enough of her job and going to school to do something she really wanted was really exciting.

She started school in July and the instructor was also the owner of the school. My mom would rave about this guy and tell me how nice he was. Then he started getting flaky and wouldn’t show up to teach class. That led to this guy sending other instructors to teach classes.

Recently, after a long day at work, my mom went to school and was waiting in the parking lot for someone to open the doors of the school. That’s when she saw a guy come up to the building and he started changing the locks on the door. He ended up being the actual owner of the building and was hesitant at first but told her he had bad news.

The instructor/owner of the school hadn’t paid the rent on the building for months and nobody has heard from him. This guy took off with everyone’s tuition. 4,000 dollars for each student. All of my mom’s savings and some of that money was from a loan my mom took out so she could go to this school.

After all she’s been through and how hard she’s worked all of her life, this asshole rips her off and others.

Right now things are up in the air but it looks like the students will file a class action lawsuit against this guy, Michael. I can’t believe anyone would do this but it really ticks me off that after all of these years, my mom went out and did something she really wants to do and then ends up getting royally screwed.

My mom deserves the very best in life and I really hope she gets it. Love you mom!

So, Michael who took all of my mom’s money and skipped town, I’m awarding you douchebag of the year.

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5 Responses to First rule of family…you don’t mess with someone’s mom. Second rule…if someone does, you write a ranty post about it.

  1. Leighann October 4, 2011 at 08:22 #

    I feel so bad for your mom.
    Good for them for filing a law suit!!
    What a jerk.
    I have no idea why people think they can take advantage of others.
    I hope it all works out.

  2. Elle P. October 4, 2011 at 08:26 #

    First, your ex-bil is a douchebag and a half! Who drains the bank account, leaving the mother of his children penniless? INFURIATING!

    Now as for your mom, that is just plain awful. I am so sorry she was taken advantage of like that. She finally decided to do something she’ll love as her career and this is what she gets?

    Sucks, sucks, sucks!

    (PS- Sorry if I was too harsh. I get a little ragey with stuff like this.)

  3. Chelle Moser Newton October 4, 2011 at 09:41 #

    Elle – this makes me feel really stabby – both the brother in law and the douchebag who took your mom’s hard earned money.

    Where are the good butcher knives when you really need them?

    Elle P. – you can’t be too harsh in this kind of situation.

    Hugs to Elle and your mom,
    Chelle

  4. NotMyYearOff October 4, 2011 at 12:46 #

    Really sorry to hear about your sister and Bil, can’t be easy to seperate. And so shocking about your mum. It’s just evil taking someone else money like that. I hope your mum is ok and that this hasn’t put her off going for what she really wanted to do.

  5. teri October 4, 2011 at 19:44 #

    Holy shitballs!!! I hope your sister is doing okay and I hope she takes her ex to the cleaners!!! I’m also sorry to hear that happened to your mom…I hope she is able to get her money back and find a way to continue with her plans until then! Your sister and mom sound so sweet…want me to call my Uncle Vinnie? He knows a guy. 😉

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